We all know that everyone keeps saying success, success, success. Be successful. However, no one will explain to you how to succeed in life? Or what is meant by success? Or what to do if you get stabbed with failures? Here, I am going to solve all these queries. Initially, wipe up all your myths about success.
In my philosophy, the actual definition of success is to live life as you want—irrespective of others' opinions without caring about them and living your life as you like.
Having daily goals, if you end up finishing all your daily goals at the end of the day, then you succeed for the day; it can't be 100% all the time, maybe 70 to 80% mostly. For example, if you had daily goals like I should wake up at 7 am, do a daily workout, read at least two pages a day of a book, walk at least 10,000 steps a day, meditate, make time for yourself, get on to bed before 10 pm, etc. If you succeed in accomplishing all these, then you are successful. And it relates the similar to your weekly, monthly, annually, and lifetime objectives(goal).
Here enters our well-known quote. "Success is not a destination. It's a journey." Aye, this is true. If you succeed in one goal, switch to the next one.
And my most extensive suggestion is to be intensive in every task you do. Deliver your 100%, trust me; this helps a lot. If you are not curious about something, don't go for it. If you're working on it, then achieve it by putting on your 100%; this helps enhance the efficiency of success in your work.
Typically, everyone has their lifetime goal. If you don't have one, get one. And the second thing you have to do is make a list of answers to these questions; why do you have that goal? What are the perks of that goal? Why are you enthusiastic about that goal? Keep these answers in your mobile notes whenever you are stuck in demotivation. If you feel a reduction in concentration, read these answers. You will get motivated.
"Life is what happens to you when you are busy planning your life." Yes, when we are busy following our goal. Then unexpectedly, because of our life circumstances, our path goes against our goal. Then, we should make decisions or reconstruct our plans according to our situations. Then we'll succeed, or If, again, life goes against our goal. Again we should make decisions or reconstruct our plans according to our situation. It's a simple game between us making decisions and what life makes decisions against us.
And the ultimate biggest mantra is that "we should constantly enjoy success emotionally and study failures with intelligence." Whenever you get a failure, instantly get a top view(zoom out), and study with your intelligence, check what the blunders are you made? Why does this happen like this? What are the wrong decisions you made? And prepare an answer catalog to these questions and get clearness. And try not to repeat these errors. And quickly move on to your following goal (like I explained in the previous paragraph).
Follow all these; you will achieve success in your life. I know it's not that easy to follow these steps by the next moment; it takes time. Yet keep doing it. You will be habituated to these.
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